Breaking the Mask: A Deep Dive Into Impostor Syndrome (and How to Finally Move Past It)
Even the most accomplished professionals can feel like frauds. Here’s what impostor syndrome really is, why it happens, and how to finally step into your own success without fear.
The Hidden Cost of Perfectionism: How Success Rewires Your Brain (and Why It’s Making You Sick)
Perfectionism looks like success on the outside — but inside, it takes a devastating toll. I know, because I’ve lived it.
Understanding Occupational Burnout: WHO Definition, 2025 Statistics, and Brain Science
In 2025, with 82% of employees at risk, the cost of ignoring burnout isn’t just personal—it’s economic, relational, and biological.
You’re Not Too Much—They’re Not Too Distant: You Just Have an Attachment Mismatch
You love each other—but somehow keep ending up in the same painful arguments. It might not be about the dishes or the tone of voice. It might be your attachment styles clashing beneath the surface. Learn why you keep triggering each other—and take the quiz to find out what’s really going on.
The Do’s & Don’ts of Using ChatGPT as Your AI therapist
AI tools like ChatGPT are transforming how people seek mental health support—but they can’t replace the safety, confidentiality, and empathy of human therapy. This article explores the hidden risks, potential benefits, and practical ways to use AI wisely—without losing the human connection essential for true healing.
The 90-Second Rule: How Neuroscience Can Stop Emotional Overwhelm
When you’re triggered—whether it’s a cutting remark or bad news—your body launches a chemical wave that lasts just 90 seconds. After that initial surge fades, the only thing keeping you upset is your own mind replaying the story.
10 Supportive Steps For Postpartum Wellness: Mental Health After Having a Baby
Struggling after childbirth? Discover 10 evidence-based ways to support postpartum depression and emotional wellness for new parents. You're not alone.
The Gottman Premarital Checklist: 20 Questions for Lasting Love
Before you say ‘I do,’ explore 20 powerful premarital questions inspired by the Gottman Method to build trust, intimacy, and emotional connection. This checklist helps engaged couples strengthen communication and create a solid foundation for a lasting marriage.
Pre-Marital Counseling: Building a Strong Foundation Before You Say "I Do"
Pre-marital counseling helps couples create a strong emotional foundation before marriage by improving communication, building trust, and aligning values.
The Wheel of Awareness: Your Secret Weapon Against Burnout and Stress
Feeling overwhelmed by stress or on the brink of burnout? As a psychotherapist, I've seen how the Wheel of Awareness technique can be a game-changer for high-achieving professionals.
Unlocking Your Full Potential: How Often Should You Seek Therapy?
How often should you go to therapy? This blog answers this popular question.
Stress-Reducing Conversation Exercise: The Gottman Method Secret to Lasting Love
Discover the Gottman Stress-Reducing Conversation to deepen your bond and handle stress as a couple. Learn practical steps to reconnect today.
Strengthen Your Bond in Just 6 Hours a Week—According to Gottman Research
Learn how the Gottman 6-Hour Rule can transform your relationship with just six intentional hours per week.
5 Science-Backed Truths Every Couple Should Know (According to Gottman)
Love isn’t just chemistry—it’s a science. Learn the research-backed truths from Dr. John Gottman that reveal what makes love thrive (or fall apart).
5 Myths About Codependency That Are Keeping You Stuck
Think codependency only shows up in relationships with addiction? Think again. In this honest, therapist-written blog, we bust 5 harmful myths about codependency that may be keeping you emotionally stuck—and offer the real path toward healthy connection.
IFS for Beginners: A Step-by-Step Guide to Understanding Your Inner Parts
Have you ever felt like part of you wants one thing, but another part of you resists? Maybe you’re excited about a new opportunity, yet another part of you feels anxious or hesitant. This inner push-and-pull isn’t random—it’s your internal system at work.
What EMDR Really Feels Like: An Inside Look From an EMDR Therapist in Hermosa Beach
EMDR therapy can sound intimidating, especially if you’re not sure what to expect. Here’s a trauma-informed breakdown of what really happens during EMDR.
Overthinking and Anxiety: Quieting the Noise in a High-Functioning Mind
Do you find yourself second-guessing decisions, replaying conversations in your head, or constantly preparing for the worst? Overthinking isn’t just a mental habit—it’s a nervous system on high alert, often rooted in past experiences, perfectionism, or fear of failure.
How to Slow Down Without Falling Behind: Therapy for High-Achievers
You’re accomplished—but exhausted. At Lisa Chen & Associates, we help high-achieving professionals slow down without losing their edge.
Wading In: An Invitation to Go Deeper in Therapy
Before I expound on what I love about depth work, let me just say: therapy does not have to be deep to be good.